Today, the way you see yourself and understand your identity is not unique. You feel the way you do because you are a product of a culture that has shaped you to process the world in a particular way. Let's talk a quick Sociology 101 tour of the influences that make you see yourself the way you do:
- Weird science: The rise of the modern era was directly linked to the rise of science. No longer were our identities governed by the laws of the Kingdom of God, but rather by the laws of the jungle.
- Losing my religion: The rise of science and the modern era meant that all religious belief was questioned. Western cultures shifted faith in God to faith in our own human potential.
- "I'm kind of a big deal": Radical individualism has shaped our self-identity.
- Making it: A person's function became more important than his or her character.
- Cheesy love songs ... well, sort of: Songs, movies, and novels all speak of romantic love being the most important thing in life. We are told that when we fall in love, we will "find ourselves"
The secular individual can only look sideways - hence the contrasting term horizontal self. It looks to others for a sense of identity rather than to something larger than oneself, thus finding a sense of self in one's status within society. The horizontal self looks to the world for approval and acceptance. Identity is exchanged for imagery.
When it comes to our identities, it is as if we are now homeless. We desire to find a home, a place where we can be accepted and loved unconditionally for who we are, but the age of the horizontal self means that we must keep on the move, constantly trying to play by our culture's rules of identity and constant competition with those around us for attention and affection.
Source: Mark Sayers (2010), The Vertical Self, p.7-20
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