Most of us think we understand biblical spirituality; we think we have heard it all before. Yet the more I learn, the more I realise that biblical faith radically surprises you, just when you think you understand it. The Bible is like a never-ending river of spiritual resources, like on of those computer-generated fractals that keeps going deeper and becoming more vivid. The Bible has radical ways of teaching us about the redemption of our desires and the path towards holiness and shalom.
Take the story of a couple with marital difficulties where the spouses seemed to be bored and take each other for granted. Their counsellor advised them to make a radical experiment. He told the wife to dress up, head down to the bar, and sit at a table. The husband was ordered to enter the bar separately and sit away from his wife, watching her. The husband began to notice that men in the bar were sneaking glances at his wife. Some men even made advances toward her. When one man initiated an attempt to seduce her, the husband, enraged with jealousy, rushed across the bar, his heart pounding with passion and anger. Suddenly, the husband no longer saw the woman he had become so familiar with; instead, he saw this woman whom other men were trying to seduce. Likewise, the wife no longer saw a man who had become bored with her; now he was a lover, fighting off other men just to have her. The couple, whose sex life had been almost non-existent lately, who had fallen out of love with each other, were so filled with passion that they couldn't even make it home and ended up making love in their car. The point is: jealousy, brought under the Lordship of God, that is in its correct place, can be holy.
Similar truth applies to sexual desires or lust in general. Our culture tries to turn the physical into a commodity. Instead of seeing beauty as a fleeting pointer to a reality beyond, lust turn us onto a dead-end street. The antidote to list is to put beauty in its divinely ordered place, to treat it as a calling card from the redeemed world to come. Sexuality is about so much more than just the act of sex; it is about the whole person. We need to learn to stay on the path of holiness, moving closer and closer to our true self.
To find our true selves, we first must give up our lives. We see this most clearly in the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. The victory for humanity, the defeat of evil, death, sin, flesh, sarx, and injustice, comes through the giving up of life. This is the last but hardest part of our journey toward our true selves. It is the final step - to become our real selves, we must die to those parts of us that are not truly us. As Jesus said to his disciples, "Whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it" (Mark 8:35).
Once you begin to shed your media masks and false public self, you begin to walk the path of holiness and shalom toward your true self. You will find that you begin to see sparks of eternity in your own life. You will see tiny signs each day of how you are becoming more like Christ. But you will also begin to see that spark, that potential, in others. You will often see it in people who cannot see it in themselves - perhaps in a family member or friend. But other times you will look down into the mud and much of contemporary life, and behind the public selves, the media masks, the actors in your life movie, the people turned into products, you will look into the eyes of others and you will see that undeniable spark of the image of God. And you will find your fingers fumbling in your pockets to find a white stone, with a new name on it. Everything within you will wish that you could pass them that smooth, cold, tangible reminder that Jesus stands holding a white stone with their true name written on it.
And so I wish that I could reach into my pocket and hand you a white stone. But I cannot, so this book is my white stone to you. A stone that also works as a key, opening a doorway out of the cramped, stale confines of the horizontal self, filling you with the gusts of fresh air perfumed with the scent of eternity.
Conclusion, I want to recruit you to become part of a revolution of the vertical self. More than ever individuals need to see themselves as God sees them. So many of the problems in our culture stem from a misunderstanding of our true identities.Let's not beat around the bush; if you are to shake off the effects of living under the horizontal self, and if you are to journey toward your true self, you will need people to keep you accountable and that journey together with. Three people would be a good number, even though it could be more or less. Now, here is where the magic lies. Just imagine if the three people that you choose go on to each choose another three people and so on. You have the power of multiplication at work, and before you know it you have affected hundreds of people. Keep multiplying and you are talking about a movement of people discovering their true identities in Christ. Be creative and find ways that work with your personality type. So it does not matter how you do it; what matters is that you do it.
Let the movement toward our true selves begin!
Source: Mark Sayers (2010), The Vertical Self, p.151-171
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